tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7225141319860355420.post2289034697299698144..comments2023-09-04T01:42:39.943-07:00Comments on First Comes Love Then Comes Baby..?: "A cross in the road..." revisitedShelby Bukhenikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05196080385089545609noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7225141319860355420.post-37118867775139236322010-09-19T22:00:03.211-07:002010-09-19T22:00:03.211-07:00First off sorry for missing so many of these! Geez...First off sorry for missing so many of these! Geez, I don't know where the heck I have been LOL. But seriously, I felt like I could have written this post myself. I have always been the first to do everything with all of my friends, marriage, babies, second baby, etc. And I also moved about an hour away from everyone I knew. So I remember feeling just like this many times, and honestly sometimes it still happens. We really are on different paths then others and if the friendship is a real one, then we will figure out how to grow together, and with some in time we will grow close to them later when they reach a more similar place in life. That is what has happened with me, and sadly a few friends just fell away and I don't think we will ever be able to be close again. This is a hard road to travel but it really can make us better friends and stronger if we learn from it like you did. Great post!Hannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16727806569366896831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7225141319860355420.post-67873751756429558952010-09-16T06:39:53.542-07:002010-09-16T06:39:53.542-07:00i think i remember this post... things are always...i think i remember this post... things are always so different after kids, but i always believe its for the better!carissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00601211338190358077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7225141319860355420.post-65622191776380423112010-09-15T18:24:13.446-07:002010-09-15T18:24:13.446-07:00It's hard to feel disconnected from friends. W...It's hard to feel disconnected from friends. When you're at different stages in life, it's hard to be on the same page. The dig is even harder when all your other friends (or in your case, husband) are invited and you're not. I've definitely had that a few times and it's hard not to feel the sting. I really love this post and think its one of your best.Gretchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507006178815090048noreply@blogger.com